Letters To Theta
Read testimonies from girls in Kappa Alpha Theta
Dear Theta,
Coming to college was a bigger leap for me than I think I realized at the time. I was the first person in my family to go to college, and I was doing it out of state, away from everything and everyone that had always been familiar. Greek life was completely new to me too. I didn’t grow up knowing what recruitment looked like or what it meant to be in a sorority, so going through recruitment and joining Theta felt like stepping into an entirely new world.
And somehow, it became one of the best decisions I could have made.
Being away from home, finding my people was not always easy. Theta helped me do that while also pushing me to come out of my shell. Because of this chapter, I have met, gotten to know, and grown to love so many people I likely never would have met otherwise. Some of the women I met here quickly became people I looked up to because of the way they lead, support others, and stay completely true to themselves. Even some of the people I already found myself looking up to on campus, without really knowing them yet, turned out to be Thetas.
That is one of my favorite things about this place. Everyone brings something different, and being surrounded by so many unique, hardworking, and kind women has helped me grow into a more confident version of myself. Theta has given me friendships, memories, and a sense of belonging that I did not even realize I was missing.
It is so special to now be a prt of a place that once felt completly unknown. I came to Butler hoping I would find my people, and I am so greatful that so many of them ended up being at the 825. <3
TLAM,
Madeline Frank, MC '25
Dear Theta,
Coming into college, I struggled with feeling like I wasn’t enough. But joining Theta changed that in ways I never expected. I found myself surrounded by women who are not only incredibly kind and genuine, but also leaders—presidents of clubs, scholars, and women deeply involved on campus. Instead of feeling intimidated, I felt inspired. They believed in me, pushed me, and helped me grow into the best version of myself. These girls have become some of the most meaningful friendships in my life. They constantly motivate me to dream bigger, show up fully, and lead with confidence. Theta isn’t just a sorority—it’s a sisterhood that builds you up, challenges you, and never lets you forget your worth.
- Adalaide Scott, MC 23
Dear Theta,
Theta truly embodies the saying, “work hard, play hard.”
As someone who was once concerned about balancing academics and finding sincere friendships, I’ve realized that Theta has allowed me to grow individually while pursuing meaningful relationships. I’m constantly inspired by the effort girls pour into their academics, but also by their drive to get involved and become confident leaders across campus.
This sisterhood isn’t solely focused on helping each other succeed. It encourages every member to become the best version of herself while never forgetting to make time for fun along the way. It’s the little moments that make Theta’s sisterhood so special, like cramming on the green couch to watch a movie or eating Theta cereal together too late at night, that bring so much joy to our everyday lives. The inclusivity, sense of belonging, and love that each girl shows one another truly make Theta feel like home.
I’m so grateful to be part of a sisterhood that pushes me to become a better person while giving me supportive and genuine friendships that I’ll carry with me long after college.
TLAM,
Kylie Sarkovics, MC '25
Dear Theta,
Oh what a great blessing Theta has been to my life! It is a place I am so grateful to call home. It is a house that overflows with love and positivity. A group of incredible women who shine their light into this world each and every day. Though there are ups & downs in this life, I am grateful for the constant source of joy the resides in Theta. I feel safe, seen, heard, and loved in the 825. Theta you are a home where I am able to grow academically, spiritually, socially, and so much more...which is what I have always desired. What an incredible thing it is to be surrounded by a community here who supports your dreams and encourages your every step. Theta has given me so many memories already, and I am beyond excited to embrace all of the opportunities and friendships you hold for me in the future. Theta, thank you for being a blessing I didn't know I needed.
- Taylor Weiwel, MC 23
Dear Theta,
How special have these semesters been! I never imagined that joining a sorority would be as transformative as it has been, and Theta has helped me grow in my everyday life. From study sessions to late night chats to nights where you just need a friend to lean on, I've been able to find it here.
Theta is more than a sorority - it's a support system. When you're down, these are the girls that lift you up. If you need help, these are the girls to drop what they're doing to lend a hand. The beauty of Theta is although we are all different and unique in our own ways, our values tie us together and make us strong.
Coming into recruitment, I wasn't sure how to feel. I was nervous, excited, intimidated (in the best way!), and hopeful all at once. At Theta, I saw this group of girls that were joyful workers that worked (and played!) hard, and no matter what they were doing, did it with a smile on their face. A Theta can be many things - whether that be an executive member of a club, a student athlete, a pharmacist, a writer, a researcher, a dancer - but no matter what she did, I could see the values of Kappa Alpha Theta shining through her. She was hardworking, a kind leader, and always looking out for those around her. These values drove me to Theta, where I've met some of my best friends in the world.
Theta is a home. In Theta, there is no comparison, no competition, just women supporting women. I can confidently say that I have found my place here at Butler, and that is my hope for every girl who goes through recruitment. Follow your values and heart and find your people - they're out there! For all the girls who feel unsure and nervous, I've been there. But put yourself out there, you have so much to offer! We're all just going through life together, so find the people who fill you with love and joy, just like I found here at Kappa Alpha Theta.
TLAM,
Annalise Roach, MC '24
Dear Theta,
Being a part of the Butler Panhellenic community has been such an overwhelmingly positive experience. The leadership, community, and sisterhoods have created such a rewarding experience. Being in Kappa Alpha Theta has felt like home. Theta is a place where I am challenged, loved, and empowered every single day. The friendships I’ve created go far beyond the limestone walls and I am so greatful for Theta and the panhellenic community.
- Claire Kubelka, MC 23
Dear Theta,
When I first joined Theta, I truly had no idea I would end up where I am now. Not only have I met my life long best friends, I have also learned so much about myself. I have learned to push myself out of my comfort zone, and to love doing it. Theta has given me so much love and support, even for the small things, and I am so happy I ran home to the 825 on bid day. I love getting to know every single girl in the house, I learn so much from each member and I can't believe I am apart of something so incredible. I love being able to be myself and joke around (sometimes too much), but also be able to be serious and get to know the girls on a deeper level. I didn't think I could experience sisterhood like this, but I am very happy to be proven wrong. I can't wait for what the next two years of Theta is going to bring to me, and I can't wait to meet even more amazing Thetas for the rest of my life!
TLAM,
Kailey MC 23
Dear Theta,
Choosing to go Theta was the best decision that I could have made for myself. Over my time in this house I have been able to see myself form such close friendships and grow into the person that I want to be, through being surround by such amazing role models. I am constantly being pushed to be the best person I can be throughout friendships, within school, extra curriculars, and so much more. Theta has given me a stable group of girls that have become family. Walking into the house I am always greeted with a smile and friendly conversation. There are so many little adventures to go on with this amazing group of girls from coffee dates, Ice cream runs, and daily walks that allow me to feel so close to my new family. I could not thank Theta enough for all the amazing memories these people have given me and I am so excited to see what is to come.
TLAM,
Jaclyn Neukirch MC'24
Dear Theta,
Growing up in a family where all my sisters and cousins joined Theta, I initially convinced myself I wanted to do something different and pave my own path. However, after attending recruitment and reflecting on my own morals and values, I fully understood why my family members had joined this sorority. I realized it on my own terms and decided to join. Becoming a member of Kappa Alpha Theta has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life, and I am deeply thankful for the sisterhood, support, and opportunities it has provided me. From the moment I became a member, I felt a strong sense of belonging. I grew up watching my sister’s friendships in Theta bloom and I longed for the same. Now, I can finally say that I have the friendships I once dreamed and prayed for—the kind of people who have continuously shown me unconditional love and support. Theta has become my home away from home, and I cherish the countless hours spent together inside and outside our special house.
Academically, being a part of Theta has been a significant source of support and motivation. The emphasis on academic and personal excellence, along with watching members accomplish their personal and professional goals, has inspired me to begin conquering my own. Now, in my leadership position, I am gaining valuable skills in teamwork, planning, and creating. These experiences have taught me the value of giving back to something that has given me so much, and the power of collective effort. Most importantly, I am thankful for the lifelong friendships I have made. The support system within Theta is unparalleled, and I am constantly inspired by the strength, resilience, and kindness of each member. It has always been a place that has pushed me to grow and be my authentic self. I am proud to be a part of this incredible sisterhood and I am filled with so much gratitude for the people in this place.
TLAM,
Mayra Farrel, MC '23
