Letters To Theta
Read testimonies from girls in Kappa Alpha Theta
Dear Theta,
Growing up in a family where all my sisters and cousins joined Theta, I initially convinced myself I wanted to do something different and pave my own path. However, after attending recruitment and reflecting on my own morals and values, I fully understood why my family members had joined this sorority. I realized it on my own terms and decided to join. Becoming a member of Kappa Alpha Theta has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life, and I am deeply thankful for the sisterhood, support, and opportunities it has provided me. From the moment I became a member, I felt a strong sense of belonging. I grew up watching my sister’s friendships in Theta bloom and I longed for the same. Now, I can finally say that I have the friendships I once dreamed and prayed for—the kind of people who have continuously shown me unconditional love and support. Theta has become my home away from home, and I cherish the countless hours spent together inside and outside our special house.
Academically, being a part of Theta has been a significant source of support and motivation. The emphasis on academic and personal excellence, along with watching members accomplish their personal and professional goals, has inspired me to begin conquering my own. Now, in my leadership position, I am gaining valuable skills in teamwork, planning, and creating. These experiences have taught me the value of giving back to something that has given me so much, and the power of collective effort. Most importantly, I am thankful for the lifelong friendships I have made. The support system within Theta is unparalleled, and I am constantly inspired by the strength, resilience, and kindness of each member. It has always been a place that has pushed me to grow and be my authentic self. I am proud to be a part of this incredible sisterhood and I am filled with so much gratitude for the people in this place.
TLAM,
Marya MC 23
Dear Theta,
Oh my goodness!! I’m so excited to write this love letter to Theta. I can’t believe I’ve been able to be a part of this amazing house, and it’s given me so much! It’s given me a group of girls that I can laugh with, have late night study seshes, and learn & grow. There are girls here I consider my mentors, and my bestest friends :) I can’t imagine this last year without Theta, and can’t wait for more memories!
TLAM,
Annalise Roach MC24
Dear Theta,
When I first joined Theta, I truly had no idea I would end up where I am now. Not only have I met my life long best friends, I have also learned so much about myself. I have learned to push myself out of my comfort zone, and to love doing it. Theta has given me so much love and support, even for the small things, and I am so happy I ran home to the 825 on bid day. I love getting to know every single girl in the house, I learn so much from each member and I can't believe I am apart of something so incredible. I love being able to be myself and joke around (sometimes too much), but also be able to be serious and get to know the girls on a deeper level. I didn't think I could experience sisterhood like this, but I am very happy to be proven wrong. I can't wait for what the next two years of Theta is going to bring to me, and I can't wait to meet even more amazing Thetas for the rest of my life!
TLAM,
Kailey MC 23
Dear Theta,
My life would look so different if I had never found you. I remember running home very excited & a little nervous about what you have in store for me for the next three years. I chose Theta because I never wanted to stop the conversations that I had. Not only that, but I also knew I needed a sign that I was making the right choice for me and Theta delivered it to me in the most unexpected & emotional way. Since I ran home that faithful January day I've found strength I never knew I had, dreams I never would've thought to pursue, and a house full of girls who are so unapologetically themselves that you never know what is going to happen when you wake up for the day. When times were good I had Theta right by my side. When times were tough I had Theta right by my side. I'm a senior now and if I could do it all again, I would still choose Theta every time.
TLAM,
Kaleigh Bendoff MC22
Dear Theta,
It’s hard to imagine what my past 2.5 years at Butler would look like without Theta. Growing up, I always wanted to join a sorority to find the lifelong friends just like my mom and sisters did. When I got to Butler, I couldn’t wait to go through recruitment and find the women that would inspire me for the rest of my life. Now, heading into senior year, I am beyond confident that I have found exactly what I was looking for!
Theta has brought me the friends who inspire me to be the best version of myself, encourage me on the hard days, and laugh with me when I need a reminder that life doesn’t always have to be so serious. Theta is home, where I can be myself and feel so loved for being exactly who I am.
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Theta love is constantly being surrounded by girls who are your role models and inspirations, girls who celebrate your accomplishments more than you do, and girls who give you a laugh when you didn’t know you need one.
Theta love is the tightest hugs from the best Greek fam. Theta love is ice cream runs with Houlds, dark walks back home from the Sci Li at 2am with Meg Vib, and being hyped up in the group chat for the smallest, sometimes silliest accomplishment of the day! Theta love is Nut Hub runs with Olivia and Target runs with Claire and Addie. Theta love is coming out of dance team retirement for lip-syncs, the best 5 minute catch ups with Emma late at night or early in the morning, and learning more about Greek culture (not Greek Life) than I ever thought I would from Anna and Frances. Theta love is the 6-pack, the 1/2 pack, and the beauties of B8.
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I truly can’t imagine what the last three years would have looked like for me without the 825. From running home on Bid Day 2022 to the women who I wanted to be best friends with, to welcoming Emma home to Theta at Disney on Bid Day 2024. From Smoothie Bowl and Deli Days, to Pumpkin Alfredo and Theta Brunch. Memories like these remind me that Theta isn’t just for 3.5 years, Theta is for life. Through the ups and downs, Theta has brought me the lifelong friends I was longing for. Thank you, Theta, for my biggest cheerleaders, my best influences and the friends I get to grow old with. Cheers to one more year in the 825!
TLAM,
Jackie MC 22
