Letters To Theta

Read testimonies from girls in Kappa Alpha Theta

Coming into college, I struggled with feeling like I wasn’t enough. But joining Theta changed that in ways I never expected. I found myself surrounded by women who are not only incredibly kind and genuine, but also leaders—presidents of clubs, scholars, and women deeply involved on campus. Instead of feeling intimidated, I felt inspired. They believed in me, pushed me, and helped me grow into the best version of myself. These girls have become some of the most meaningful friendships in my life. They constantly motivate me to dream bigger, show up fully, and lead with confidence. Theta isn’t just a sorority—it’s a sisterhood that builds you up, challenges you, and never lets you forget your worth.

Adalaide Scott

Dear Theta, \

How special have these semesters been! I never imagined that joining a sorority would be as transformative as it has been, and Theta has helped me grow in my everyday life. From study sessions to late night chats to nights where you just need a friend to lean on, I've been able to find it here.

Theta is more than a sorority - it's a support system. When you're down, these are the girls that lift you up. If you need help, these are the girls to drop what they're doing to lend a hand. The beauty of Theta is although we are all different and unique in our own ways, our values tie us together and make us strong.

Coming into recruitment, I wasn't sure how to feel. I was nervous, excited, intimidated (in the best way!), and hopeful all at once. At Theta, I saw this group of girls that were joyful workers that worked (and played!) hard, and no matter what they were doing, did it with a smile on their face. A Theta can be many things - whether that be an executive member of a club, a student athlete, a pharmacist, a writer, a researcher, a dancer - but no matter what she did, I could see the values of Kappa Alpha Theta shining through her. She was hardworking, a kind leader, and always looking out for those around her. These values drove me to Theta, where I've met some of my best friends in the world.

Theta is a home. In Theta, there is no comparison, no competition, just women supporting women. I can confidently say that I have found my place here at Butler, and that is my hope for every girl who goes through recruitment. Follow your values and heart and find your people - they're out there! For all the girls who feel unsure and nervous, I've been there. But put yourself out there, you have so much to offer! We're all just going through life together, so find the people who fill you with love and joy, just like I found here at Kappa Alpha Theta.

TLAM,

Annalise Roach, MC '24

Dear Theta,

Being a part of the Butler Panhellenic community has been such an overwhelmingly positive experience. The leadership, community, and sisterhoods have created such a rewarding experience. Being in Kappa Alpha Theta has felt like home. Theta is a place where I am challenged, loved, and empowered every single day. The friendships I’ve created go far beyond the limestone walls and I am so greatful for Theta and the panhellenic community.

- Claire Kubelka, MC 23

Dear Theta,

When I first joined Theta, I truly had no idea I would end up where I am now. Not only have I met my life long best friends, I have also learned so much about myself. I have learned to push myself out of my comfort zone, and to love doing it. Theta has given me so much love and support, even for the small things, and I am so happy I ran home to the 825 on bid day. I love getting to know every single girl in the house, I learn so much from each member and I can't believe I am apart of something so incredible. I love being able to be myself and joke around (sometimes too much), but also be able to be serious and get to know the girls on a deeper level. I didn't think I could experience sisterhood like this, but I am very happy to be proven wrong. I can't wait for what the next two years of Theta is going to bring to me, and I can't wait to meet even more amazing Thetas for the rest of my life!

TLAM,

Kailey MC 23

Dear Theta,

My life would look so different if I had never found you. I remember running home very excited & a little nervous about what you have in store for me for the next three years. I chose Theta because I never wanted to stop the conversations that I had. Not only that, but I also knew I needed a sign that I was making the right choice for me and Theta delivered it to me in the most unexpected & emotional way. Since I ran home that faithful January day I've found strength I never knew I had, dreams I never would've thought to pursue, and a house full of girls who are so unapologetically themselves that you never know what is going to happen when you wake up for the day. When times were good I had Theta right by my side. When times were tough I had Theta right by my side. I'm a senior now and if I could do it all again, I would still choose Theta every time.

TLAM,

Kaleigh Bendoff MC22

Dear Theta,

Growing up in a family where all my sisters and cousins joined Theta, I initially convinced myself I wanted to do something different and pave my own path. However, after attending recruitment and reflecting on my own morals and values, I fully understood why my family members had joined this sorority. I realized it on my own terms and decided to join. Becoming a member of Kappa Alpha Theta has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life, and I am deeply thankful for the sisterhood, support, and opportunities it has provided me. From the moment I became a member, I felt a strong sense of belonging. I grew up watching my sister’s friendships in Theta bloom and I longed for the same. Now, I can finally say that I have the friendships I once dreamed and prayed for—the kind of people who have continuously shown me unconditional love and support. Theta has become my home away from home, and I cherish the countless hours spent together inside and outside our special house.

Academically, being a part of Theta has been a significant source of support and motivation. The emphasis on academic and personal excellence, along with watching members accomplish their personal and professional goals, has inspired me to begin conquering my own. Now, in my leadership position, I am gaining valuable skills in teamwork, planning, and creating. These experiences have taught me the value of giving back to something that has given me so much, and the power of collective effort. Most importantly, I am thankful for the lifelong friendships I have made. The support system within Theta is unparalleled, and I am constantly inspired by the strength, resilience, and kindness of each member. It has always been a place that has pushed me to grow and be my authentic self. I am proud to be a part of this incredible sisterhood and I am filled with so much gratitude for the people in this place.

TLAM,

Mayra Farrel, MC '23